WHO IT’S FOR:
IF YOU CLICKED, THIS IS PROBABLY FOR YOU!!!
everyone who doesn’t feel at home in straight flirting nor in gay male cruising spaces. Transbians, butch lesbians, bicurious curious “straight” girls, transmascs, “I wish I was trans so I could wear a skirt”-people, those who don’t identify.. etc etc.
WE DONT ASK, IF YOU WANT TO BELONG, YOU BELONG!!!
DESCRIPTION:
Ever had the fantasy of silent, sexy encounters with strangers? No strings attached, no complications - just a signal to ask for consent and then you kiss?
This is exactly what this is.
You are encouraged to explore non verbal interaction, especially since so many of us feel social pressure to be shy, therefore we will use hand signals.
HOW IT WORKS:
TO ASK PERMISSION, LOCK EYES+SMILE, MOVE SLOWLY TOWARDS THE PERSON.
TO SAY YES, meet their eyes, smile back, walk slowly to them also.
TO SAY NO turn your head away and move a step in a different direction.
TO ASK FOR A KISS/makeout session, point to your lips.
To ask to be touched in any specific area, point to it, or move the persons hand there
To say now, or slow things down, take the persons hand and move it away/put it where you would rather have it.
To say no mid makeout, put your hand on the person and gently push them away.
For this to work, YOU HAVE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR DESIRE. YOU HAVE TO SAY/SHOW NO WHEN YOU’RE NOT INTERESTED
You can say no at any time. No strings attached. Don’t worry about disappointing the person.
This can only be a safe space to take initiative if we can also trust each other to say no, and ask for what they want.
LOCATION: STONEWALL.IO
Looking to borrow a laptop for mood ambience and music in the sound system!!
As well input/ideas for music/playlists/genres you think would be nice
Please contact me @zackstarkid@kolektiva.social on mastodon. Or toot using the hashtag #38c3flintaparty (but pls tag me!)